Sharing the Number of Erogenous Partners - Critical or Not?

[Jasper]

I'm curious, do you feel knowing your partner's erogenous history is important? Like, should we discuss about the number of earlier sexual partners we've had or would it just cause needless tension?

[Finch]

Personally, I believe it's an individual desire. If both partners are cosy discussing their pasts then good for them but it's crucial to sustain a respectful attitude throughout the discussion.

[Paula]

It can be a responsive matter for some. I think it's only essential if it affects the current connection. And if you do decide on to discuss, constantly be respectful and open-minded.

[Meza]

I believe the variety itself isn't as critical as becoming truthful on your erogenous health. It shouldn't be used as some thing to shame or judge your partner.

[Allison]

Definitely a tricky subject. I'd say it's more about having an open interaction with your partner ratherthan focusing on the quantity itself.